Think that you did this to yourself, and there was where the pain comes from..
It's in every little things, even when you are failing by pure external factor.
It's about yourself and your attitude that could change that failure,
either you're going to stand or you're going to crumble down.
This might resulted in ignorance, anger or happiness.
It's all about what we see and reflect within ourselves.
From us human destroying our own home or the laziness that prevents achievement, we are doing this to ourselves, it's like the act of great masochism, we were born pure, unknowing good and bad. We were born to do something, our own existence brings its consequences itself.
So instead putting the blame on others or in other hand curse yourself because you feel extremely guilty. Just realize it and not getting attached to it. Our world problems is made by our own mind, so to solve them is also just swim across and not drowned in them.
